At times we all have the nudge to give people a taste of their own medicine but what’s the point? Revenge is that prison in which we’re the jailer as well as the prisoner. It echoes and conjures up those painful times and the memories keep flooding back. Revenge can also be a poisonous fruit that entices any person starving with hunger but ends up positing him whereas Forgiveness transforms that poison into lessons of wisdom but does that mean we let anyone hurt us and forgive them again and again? Forgiveness is like a bridge. It is imperative to connect with others, but when its constantly damaged people on both sides of the bridge end up being stranded it loses its limit to be repaired.
I anticipate that forgiving sometimes is fine but if you keep forgiving you’ll end up being used. It’s better to cut ties for your mental peace but if even the thought of cutting ties with them lits a bonfire in your chest because letting go isn’t a plain sailing and if vengeance gives you exultation what’s wrong in it? Why should anyone hurt you and get to water off a ducks back? You don’t always have to put on a brave face and act like you’re fine . Some people believe in forgiveness some believe in revenge and some believe in just cutting off well I think you should do whatever gives you equanimity because trust me that’s what matters at the end of the day.